Showing posts with label Male Sexuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Male Sexuality. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 8, 2019

Is He Breaking the Law?

 Maybe Jason Tantra is in for some BLISS of a different kind.

If he does not have a license to practice, he may be breaking the law...

If Jason Tantra is not registered with state authorities as a business, which he is, and he's not collecting or paying taxes on the money he and his associates are collecting, he could be in for a lot of trouble.

Furthermore, if he's conducting massage or training where a state requires a license, as it does fo rmassage or for conducting certain types of education, he could be in legal trouble.

Finally, if he doesn't have accreditation or authority to issue certificates or training as an educational or training entity, he's issuing misleading and fraudulent training certificates or "diplomas."

Tantra4GayMen and Jason "Tantra" have become the focus of an investigation into what Neotantra is and what it does. If we are to go by some of the statements made on many of the Tantric Sex or Tantric Massage sites, they may come under the oversight and licensing authority of a state department of health or department of education. Furthermore, some of those offerings and some of the claims and statements in Jason's promotional material marketing those offerings may also be in direct violation of established public health policy.

Jason Tantra is preying on the vulnerable gay and bisexual men

Admittedly, if we are to take some of Jason Tantra's statements, if they were even intelligible, we'd not necessarily take them seriously; nevertheless, as Barnum is reputed to have said, "There's a sucker born every minute." What does concern me are his YouTube videos, some of which are clearly bad advice — even if you can ignore the wind noise and the vulgarity —, especially if viewed by a vulnerable person. And Jason Tantra is preying on the vulnerable gay and bisexual men out there with his lofty promises.
Ignorantia juris non excusat / ignorantia legis neminem excusat
(Latin: "ignorance of the law excuses not" and "ignorance of law excuses no one" respectively)

If Jason Tantra's messages through his Internet site and his YouTube presentations are inaccurate or unclear, whether through ignorance, ineptitude, or by design, he is being irresponsible and perhaps even legally negligent. That is not the kind of teacher I would recommend to anyone who thinks he has an existential, emotional, sexual, relationship, or spiritual problem!

In fact, what Jason Tantra is doing, despite his assertion that "Tantra is an unregulated industry/practice" may be a mistaken assumption. In fact, if we rely on Jason Tantra's own statements, he may be providing psychological counseling/therapy, sex therapy, marriage/relationship therapy, therapeutic bodywork/massage, all activities that require specific training and licensure by either a state department of health or department of education in most states and locales. If Jason Tantra's activities meet any of the definitions of such activities then he must be licensed to practice those activities in a particular state and, if he does not have a license to practice, he may be breaking the law. Even if he is licensed to practice in the UK or anywhere, if he is practicing in NYS he must apply for reciprocity. I wonder if he has even made the necessary inquires to avoid a legal hassle. I've made inquiries with the New York State Department of Health and the New York State Department of Education, the state's licensing authority. I'll keep you posted on their responses.

Jason Tantra's advice may be interpreted to be running counter to public health policy


I've reviewed a number of Jason Tantra's YouTube videos and find that some of the content,that is, Jason Tantra's advice may be interpreted to be running counter to public health policy or may just be plainly bad advice. I mention his diatribe on how porn can be beneficial and also include his statements in his YouTube video "Unashamed Sex," in which he advises viewers to "do anything" and "do everything."

Bad advice for a price.



Will Jason's massaging hands find themselves in cuffs?

There are quite a few "Jason Tantras" out there and they have been plying their dark-side trade in sex practices for some time throughout the United States. Some recent events organized by Jason are to take place in New York, Massachusetts, and Pennsylvania. We are requesting the opinions of the regulatory authorities in those states and have directed them to Jason Tantra's Tantra4GayMen web site and to YouTube for their information.

I'll keep my readers posted on their responses.

Stay tuned: Our next questions will be about Jason Tantra's and Tantra4GayMen's tax status. Are they paying taxes on the money participants pay? Is Jason paying US or UK taxes? 



In the interest of keeping you in the best of physical, emotional, and spiritual health. 



Monday, November 13, 2017

Why men should prefer partners more mature, older than themselves.

Advance Tip on an Upcoming Article



I am going to write about this important topic from the standpoint of the more mature partner's role as mentor, protector, stabilizer for the younger man. When I refer to a younger man, I won't be writing about man-boy love or men who are not at a psychological or mental level of development that allows them to move beyond childish infatuation or adolescent confusion; I will be discussing younger men who are well-adjusted, secure, good in their skins, and who have self-respect and can take charge of their lives without having to be dependent. The older man is the partner who has the life experience and knowledge, practical and/or academic, and the wisdom to be mentor to the younger man. This type of relationship is built on a concept of beauty and eroticism expressed in trusting and awareness, surrender to each other in physical and emotional, as well as spiritual touching and sharing; both explore the other, surrendering himself to the other without abandoning his own essence in the nurturing and growing process. This is what I will call "inviolable vulnerability."


The essay is in process at this time but I do want to give all of my readers a heads up on it. I feel it is an important article and will be a lead-in to articles on beauty and silence in relationships.




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Monday, August 14, 2017

Age is Beauty: Benefits of Younger-Older Relationships

Older Men are Simply HOT! When I see a salt-and-pepper handsome face, healthy, a little arrogant, well-groomed and cared for, has a bit of spunk in his stride, looks like he takes pride in his mind and body, his spirit sends that message. He's HOT!






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I often find it a bit incomprehensible that some guys are interested in twinks or 20-somethings, and seem to be so uninterested in older guys. It just seems so much more natural and sensible for someone to be attracted to a handsome, fit, daddy than to an immature, confused twit.

I've already written a piece on agism and playing the stupid numbers game and how shallow and useless it is. All that having been said, it's sometimes just necessary to point things out to some people. So here goes...

First of all, it's all about relationship and relationship is all about three things: you, your partner and what keeps you together. It's not about what other people think or what your fake friends tell you you need to do. If you travel with a fool you travel alone. That goes for life and friends as well. Those guys who are giving you advise probably don't know their asses from their elbows but think they can give you relationship advice. Forget about it!

Get some balls and get into a really unique and rewarding relationship that will last longer than a couple of  drunken nights.

There are many benefits to a relationship between a younger man and an older man. Here are just a few:



Read the whole article on the Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch website.

The Numbers Game: Agism

Aren't you sick and tired of "friends" asking "How old are you?" I am.




 




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If we are to get out of this moral and spiritual cesspool we've gotten ourselves into, we are going to have to re-form our images of ourselves and our perceptions of others. We have to recognize the reality of who we are as individuals and as members of a common cosmos.We have to acknowledge what we are as ephemeral temporal material beings subject to the ravages of time and the wear and tear of simply living. We have to accept that what we are in this moment is completely other than what we will be in the next moment. Even as you read these words, you are irreversibly changing; there's no turning back.



 

As Heraclites taught several 25 centuries ago, "panta rhea", everything is in a flux. More clearly stated: You can never step into the same river twice. Why? Because "panta rhea," it's constantly moving along, the water you stepped into a moment ago is no longer there; new water has taken its place. That's why we call Time metaphorically a river, although Time itself is a metaphor, because it's constantly flowing, every instant is different from the last.

In the maladapted western concept of linear time, most of you are thinking of moving along a linear path running from your conception in a moment of sexual ecstasy to your final moments and the moment of your death. Along that linear path called life you place markers called years and plot your journey by the number of these markers you pass. Some of you will pass just a few and then end your journey; others will pass many of them before their journey comes to an end. Your reality is that you are compelled to accept that you have a beginning and an end, just as all line segments, all paths, all journeys. They have a beginning and an end. If you think about this you become confused and anxious so you stop thinking about it and go into denial. You're being pursued. You can run. You can't hide.

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When we think in terms of linear time, it's impossible to escape the raw anxiety that with every step we take, we move closer to an end, to oblivion. Linear time forces us to attempt to do as much as possible in the time allotted and in the time remaining. With each step we approach that mysterious gate, beyond which lies the unknown.

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Sunday, July 30, 2017

Cum More & Stay Healthy






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My whole philosophy about relationships and intimacy may fall through the cracks after you read this but please don't think that I've changed my mind about anything having to do how we can manage spirituality in our most intimate moments, using that sexual spirituality to increase our ecstasy when sharing with a lover.

Normally, I would say hold off on ejaculating for as long as possible, practicing cum control (I'll be writing about that soon) until the very end and then exploding, while experiencing multiple orgasm-like moments throughout the session. Male orgasm is not cumming; cumming is ejaculating, shooting your cum load. Orgasm is that transcendent experience you have just before cumming and it's that transcendence that I like to extend, expand and repeat during a love-making session.

In a recent scientific article, however, Harvard Medical School publishes research findings that support the idea that male sexual health is enhanced by ejaculating more often than most men tend to think. This Harvard study is good news for sexually active men.

According to the study:


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Tuesday, July 18, 2017

A Prologue

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Welcome, Friend:

This blog is about gay male relationship and spirituality, a Tantra of Gay Companionship.

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William